Monthly Archives: May 2013

Spiritual Gifts, or, Why do I feel worthless sometimes?

Everyone on this earth has spiritual gifts from God, Christian or not. It’s true! I’m very good at pointing out spiritual gifts- perhaps that’s my spiritual gift….Seriously, though, what has God given you that you can give back to the world? Romans 12 shows that every person has gifts and those gifts may be different for every person: “Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith; if service, in our serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching; the one who exhorts, in his exhortation; the one who contributes, in generosity; the one who leads, with zeal; the one who does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness” (Rom 12:6-8, ESV). So, let’s use our gifts!

But, what if we have no idea what our gifts are? What if we feel we have no gifts? Ah yes, this is a problem, and one I constantly struggle with. In this world today, people are always striving for better things, to better themselves no matter who it may hurt in the process. Magazines portray perfect men, women, children, and homes. TV shows an idyllic world, and guess what? It’s fake! However, after watching these shows and seeing images of ‘perfect’ people, it gets into our brains and tells us we’re not good enough. I can play piano and organ, but after listening to the classic music station on the radio, I don’t really think I’m that good. The clothes I wear are still somewhat modest, but the magazines are telling me I need shorter shorts, and more revealing shirts or else I won’t be liked- I’ll be looked at as the different one. I need to wear make-up to look nice, and take extra time on my hair. I’ve been so affected by society that sometimes, when I hear that God loves me anyway no matter what I do, there is NO WAY I can believe that. What’s the evidence? I’m not good enough, plain and simple.

Now, I know this is a message we’ve all heard many times before, but it’s always worth repeating. God does love you, no matter what you do or what you look like! We call our gifts ‘spiritual’ for a reason- they’re not meant to be compared to flawed standards of society, they’re meant to be used for God! And God really wants us to use our gifts; imagine giving someone a gift that they stored in their closet for years and never used? Yeah, same thing with spiritual gifts. I myself am still working on this area of Biblical Living in my own life, and it’s not easy. Sometimes, using those spiritual gifts for God leaves us vulnerable under the eye of society and we may feel alone, but it’s important to remember: you are not alone! Not only are you joined by an uncountable number of Christians around the world using their gifts, but God is always with you too!

-Stephanie

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No, we’re not gone- just finishing the end of a semester…

If you have some extra time, check out this post from Rachel Held Evans- I find it very appropriate, especially now that the sun has come out again!

http://rachelheldevans.com/blog/back-porch-theology

-Stephanie

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God loves the slugs too!

I’m just sitting here with nothing better to do, really. I’ve got a paper I could be working on, cleaning that should be done, and plenty of laundry too. But what I really want to do? Yeah, sit on the couch and read. I’m that kind of girl- sit me down with a good book, and nothing else gets done. So that’s what I’ve been doing! Although I started to feel bad about not really writing anything on my paper, so I got up to look at what I had so far and the Bible popped open to Proverbs 31. UH-OH!

For those who are not familiar, it is a chapter in the Bible describing an ideal wife. “She is far more precious than jewels.” I’d like to think I’m pretty precious. But it goes on from there, folks: “She rises while it is still night and provides food for her household…She girds herself with strength, and makes her arms strong…She makes linen garments and sells them…She looks well to the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness…”

Oh.

I think I just ate the whole loaf of idleness today! Now to be fair, God still loves me when I sit around all day like a slug. He won’t love me any more when I do work- that’s like saying my mother loves me more when I do her dishes, instead of making her do mine too. No, I get up and be productive because I can and because it gives me joy to work for the glory of God and it’s honoring my family as well! Plus, it always makes me feel better to have a clean room, clean clothes, and assignments all done at the end of the day…don’t you agree? Ahh, I think I have work to do…

-Stephanie

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The results are in!

So, the votes are in and the winner is…Shave the head and keep the beard! And here it is:

Michael - May One

Michael – May One

-Michael

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May 1st has arrived!

I am definitely wearing pants. I’ve actually worn a few pairs today, I can’t lie. It’s almost like the pants are hugging my legs- what an odd feeling after wearing skirts and dresses for a month! When my parents and I prayed over our dinner, I wasn’t scrambling to wear a scarf. I called my hairdresser and scheduled a long-overdue trim. Michael is going to cut his hair later today. It seems like life is back to the way it was before April….or is it?

I am changed, for the better to be sure. I’m not sure anyone could come out of a month of “living Biblically” unchanged. I have no clue how those changes will continue to shape my life, but stay tuned- I will certainly let you know!

-Stephanie

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